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Apr 16, 2023Liked by sherri jane margolin aka durga

As a 68-year-old single-by-choice woman, Iā€™m finally comfortable in my own skin whether at home or in the company (rarely, by design) of others. I wish Iā€™d known this freedom decades ago ā¤ļøšŸ˜Š

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Thank you!! Exposing one's inner self is hard. I am glad my readers have gotten some out out it!!! šŸ™šŸ»

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Yes, just 14 years ago I was trying to protect myself from sounding different than I am. Hiding who I am because others would judge if they knew the truth. The gifts from being single-by-choice are not an easy conquest because we are taught to please others to find our value in life.

We know this now.

Your attachments are informative and enlightening.

I don't think you have to know what to say, only to not hide your eyes. Open them. If someone is attractive. Look at them. Don't look away with discomfort.

I'm so glad you wrote this!

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